18 Best Dildos of 2023, According to Reviewers

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Hi, fun fact for you: Did you know that the world's oldest dildo (discovered by German scientists back in 2005 and crafted from polished siltstone) was likely made around 28,000 years ago? Just saying, if something's been in use for 28,000 years, then it's probably pretty good, right?? Whether you’re looking for a solo sex toy or an accessory for pegging, dildos can be used for oral, anal, or vaginal insertion, and they're an A+ tool for vaginal and prostate stimulation. Not sure what kind of dildo is the best dildo for you? Let's get into the nitty-gritty.

As you can imagine, today's dildos have come a long way from the Upper Paleolithic Era, and while most are made with silicone, you'll find stainless steel and glass dildos out there as well. Typically, dildos are phallic-shaped and meant to feel like a penis—though not all are particularly phallic-looking, if that's not your thing. Some are compatible with harnesses, some include suction cup bases, and some are double-ended—and you can even buy a vibrating dildo! Feeling overwhelmed? DW, 'cause we're here to help you find the best dildo for your penetrative preferences, bb.

Read on for all the best dildos for anal and internal stim, as well as expert advice on finding the dildo of your dreams.

Small, mission-based sex toy brand Tantus has been making high-grade silicone creations since 1997, and considering the quality, Tantus dildos are surprisingly affordable. One of the most popular offerings: the Acute, which is flexible, angled, and safe for both vaginal and anal play. It's got a gorge glossy finish, and it's compatible with harnesses—though pls note that it isn't suction-cup compatible.

THE REVIEW: According to one reviewer, "Tantus makes great products in general. This particular one is a great toy for those looking for fast, short thrusting and/or a toy that is close to the average male size. The head is the largest diameter size of the toy, and it rubs nicely against all the right spots. A great toy for a quicky, as it requires virtually no warming up."

Looking for display-worthy dildos in unique artisanal colors? Allow us to introduce you to Blush's Avant collection. Made with platinum-cured silicone and complete with a deep, strong suction cup, Avant dildos are top-notch, like the mid-sized D1, which boasts subtle curves and a uniquely broad head. And yes, this bb is harness-compatible as well!

THE REVIEW: "Smooth, scent-free silicone feel, light in weight, and bold in color," notes one tester. "It's a great toy!"

Featuring one curved end and one beaded end, Unbound's dual-ended Gemini dildo is all about versatility, and it's great for newbies and pros alike. The size is non-intimidating, the weight is substantial without feeling heavy, and it's designed for both internal and A-spot stimulation. What's not to love???

THE REVIEW: "This is my first glass piece and I have to say—it's just beautiful!" one review reads. "If it were socially acceptable, I would display it on my dresser with my crystals. It has a nice weight to it and is a good size."

This C-curve dildo isn't just easy on the eyes—it also really, really gets the job done. Handcrafted to hit ALL the right places, njoy's internet-famous Pure Wand features a 1-inch bulb on one end and 1.5-inch bulb on the other, so you can choose the size that's right for you. Between the ergonomic shape and cool, polished steel, you're in for a *very* good time with this bb.

THE REVIEW: As one tester raves, "Wow!!! I read the reviews, I heard all the hype, I rolled my eyes, and then I caved. Thank you, almighty power above, that I did!! This toy is everything and more than it is hyped up to be. If you love g-spot stimulation, if you want to ejaculate as a woman, if you want try hot/cold sensations, if you are a man wanting or loving p-spot playing, then you, my friends, need this toy!!"

Hello, how cute is this? Slim and tapered with a semi-realistic head, this marbled silicone dildo is ideal for anyone getting started on their dildo journey. It comes in three fun colorways and can be used with a harness or on a hard surface, thanks to its suction cup base. You can even slip in a bullet vibe to turn this dildo into a vibing toy!

THE REVIEW: "It is a perfect size for me," notes one buyer. "Gorgeous to look at and silky-smooth feeling. It’s very, very firm, but I wanted that, as most of my other dildos are quite supple and squishy. This one definitely has its place and even at full price is a great value. Suction is great, and I like the fact you can tuck a bullet into the base of you want."

If you don’t need a suction cup base, then you'll love this handheld vibrating dildo from Fun Factory, which is extra girthy and complete with a handy loop design for more control. It’s flexible, rechargeable, waterproof, and has six speeds and six patterns—and as a bonus, it's ever-so-slightly curved for better maneuverability while inside you.

THE REVIEW: "It is a game-changer," raves one reviewer. "The super-soft silicone feels so good inside of me, and its length and girth is what makes this toy so wonderful. It is huge and has a soft, huge head, which I absolutely love, and the vibrations are so intense. So, if you're thinking about getting one, just go and get it. It's the best."

Another great budget pick for beginners: this v phallic dildo from Lovehoney. Available in four skin tones and complete with a defined head, veined shaft, and firm balls, the Lifelike Lover Classic is srsly...you know, lifelike. Oh, and it's also harness compatible with a surprisingly strong suction-cup base.

THE REVIEW: "As a beginner with toys, I was wanting something that would feel realistic and not plasticky," one tester notes. "I can safely say this does not disappoint. It’s the perfect girth and the suction is amazing."

Speaking of lifelike, it doesn't get any more realistic feeling than this platinum-cured silicone stunner from female-owned brand Vixen Creations. The Mustang boasts a solid inner core and an outer layer made with Vixen's patented VixSkin silicone that feels *just* like the real deal—and yep, that non-slip base is harness-compatible.

THE REVIEW: "If you haven't gotten a VixSkin toy before, it's worth paying a bit extra to try their dual-density silicone," reads one review. "It has a firm inner core, with softer, squishier silicone on the outside. While no toy feels like a real penis, VixSkin is definitely as close as I've ever felt. The Mustang is a modest and comfortable size, and I'd recommend it to anyone—even if it's your first toy."

You won't find a bendier dildo than the Limba Flex. Thanks to its poseable shaft and tapered tip, this bb makes position changes easier during strap-on play, and it's available in three different sizes, so you can find the right fit for you. The extra-thin base suctions very, very well to flat, smooth surfaces, and best of all, the firm wire in the dildo’s core keeps it in the shape you choose until you’re ready to try another.

THE REVIEW: According to one reviewer, "From the first time I used the Limba Flex, I knew this was going to be one of my go-to toys for pegging due to its customizable shape, velvety soft silicone, and harness-friendly design. A+!"

For something simple, slim, and 100 percent non-phallic, ya can't beat the Bellesa Luxe Dildo. Like the Limba Flex, it's available in three size options (a 5-inch, a 6-inch, and a 7-inch), and it's designed to work in a harness, suctioned to a smooth surface, or totally on its own. And according to testers, the Luxe Dildo is *just* the right firmness for pegging.

THE REVIEW: One tester writes, "I've always been intimidated by dildos because I cannot handle anything 'too big' inside me. I have chronic pain and that includes my cervix, unfortunately. I'm really sensitive! This dildo was a perfect size though, and I don't know how I lived without it! It's small and thin enough to prevent pain but large enough to be really pleasurable. It's no exaggeration to say this dildo changed my life."

Anyone who enjoys anal beads will wanna give this dual-ended beaded dildo from Lovehoney a whirl. It features a tapered tip on one end that's oh-so-easy to insert, and the large bulb on the opposite end doubles as a handle or a larger insertion tip for more ~advanced~ users. And like all the best glass dildos, it can be used both anally or vaginally for an intense, rippling sensation.

THE REVIEW: "This took a little while to get used to, but the beaded nature almost served as a measure of progress, which made it great fun," notes one tester. "It’s very comfortable to use and I personally love the smooth texture of glass. It’s very ergonomic also. The large end is a great handle and the curve works with your body."

Another great pick from Fun Factory: the Bouncer. This v unique option features three weighted balls that roll and bounce around the shaft as you use it, giving you an ah-mazing feeling of fullness (and according to reviewers, it feels WAY more realistic than vibrations). It's also got an extra-thin base that's great for suctioning onto surfaces or strapping on.

THE REVIEW: "This toy is absolutely incredible," one tester raves. "I don't have much experience with toys, because until now, I never found the right thing. Vibrations are just distracting to me. I prefer exciting penetration, and this one...I've never seen anything like this. The width is a tad intimidating, but once my imagination has me all worked up, it's everything I could possibly want."

For lovers of thrusting toys, the Teddy TX from Velvet is seriously a dream. Made with bendy silicone, this cutie features a suction-cup base that allows for hands-free play, and though it's petite, it provides a 2.5-inch stroke length and can reach speeds of up to 128 strokes per minute (!!). Ofc, for a lil more insertable length, you can always upgrade to the Teddy XL.

THE REVIEW: "Wow, this toy is powerful," one buyer raves. "It feels so real like you're really getting f*cked!! This is my new favorite toy, especially when I want sex and don't have a partner!! It's a little on the noisy side, but you could put earbuds on while playing. Nice quality. I would say if you're debating whether or not to get it...just get it!!! It feels so great!!"

Looking for an affordable set? Feast your eyes on this dildo-and-harness combo from Lovehoney. The harness is fully adjustable and comes with three interchangeable O-rings for ~versatility~ as well as a lil pocket for sticking a bullet vibe if you so choose. It also comes with a simple purple dil that curved to hit aaaall the right angles.

THE REVIEW: "This is my first time purchasing a strap-on, and I could not be happier," one review reads. "The straps are comfortable, it is easy to put on and take off, and the dildo attachment is sturdy. I had an enjoyable time both giving and receiving pleasure from this item. I would highly recommend for beginner use!"

Wanna strap-on without the straps? Get yourself a harness-free wearable double dildo, like this bb from Fun Factory. Unlike traditional double-ended dildos, this toy has a lightweight inner core, which makes it much easier to keep the girthy end inserted as ya play. Other notable features include the extra-long shaft and adjustable hinge, which lets you switch positions with way less struggle.

THE REVIEW: According to one reviewer, "Love the length and the girth—it was perfect for anal penetration (not too large, not too small, easy to adjust depth of penetration as needed). The ridge along the head of the shaft felt AWESOME. It definitely hit the prostate and was easy to grind against in a few different positions, which isn't always the case if the shaft is too floppy."

Another hands-free option: the Union. Designed with vulvas in mind, the Union is super-soft and malleable, featuring an elongated shaft on one end and a comfy bulb for inserting inside the vagina on the other. It comes in three girth options, includes an internal wire to help you pose the shaft as you please, and comes with a rechargeable five-speed bullet for good vibes all around.

THE REVIEW: "I think the fact that the toys are made by lesbians for lesbians is a big part of why this double dildo is so perfect," one tester writes. "The shorter end stays in place very well, even when things get quite slippery. Both of us had to be a little slow removing it because it's a little larger, but it isn't uncomfortable to insert or to keep in. It's just the right size to stay put in pretty much all the positions you can think of and for as long as you want to use it."

The Jix vibe from trans-owned sex shop Cute Little Fuckers is another A+ non-anatomical pick, as it features dual stimulation, five vibe speeds and five patterns, and an ergonomic handle that can be used for penetration as well. You'll love that it's also beginner-friendly, great for all genders, and thin enough for anal play.

THE REVIEW: According to one tester, "My first impression was that the toy itself is slimmer than expected and the vibe is very small, but that is not a complaint! It is different (after trying a few 'wand' styles where the vibrating part is quite large), but it turns out the smaller size is truly great for many uses—and despite appearances, the vibration packs a punch. It also is very quiet, which can be a huge plus!"

So...is it a dildo or a piece of modern art? The Unbound Stellar is definitely both. This iridescent stunner has a thinner hooked end that acts as a handle (and that keeps it from getting lodged inside of your body), while its uniquely curved shaft is designed for intense internal stim. Don't be surprised if you're tempted to keep it out on your nightstand—it's just that pretty.

THE REVIEW: "I don't really leave reviews, but I have not seen or had anything like Stellar," reads one review. "The firmness and temperature options with the glass make it a really fun 'massage tool' that I can feel more intensely than most silicone dildos. Plus, you can spin it around to hit all the angles, and it's sooo easy to clean."

Not sure what kind of dildo will work best for you? A few things to keep in mind as ya shop:

As with all sex toys, the material of your dildo matters, 'cause you def don't want to irritate your most intimate areas with a poorly-made toy. It's best to steer clear of toys made with PVC, as those tend to be more porous and pretty much impossible to fully sanitize (not to mention they may contain toxic chemicals called phthalates). Instead, certified sex therapist Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CST, suggests looking for toys made from non-porous, body-safe materials. "You have many options, such as silicone, glass, porcelain, and metal," she says, and it all depends on the sensation you wanna experience.

Just like with any insertable toy (looking at you, butt plugs), you don't wanna choose a dildo that's too long or girthy for you to use comfortably. As certified sex therapist Dulcinea Pitagora, PhD, LCSW, CST, previously told Cosmo, it's better to start small and then work your way up, 'cause no one wants to experience anal or vaginal tearing from a too-big toy. "You can get more pleasure from larger sizes when you're more aroused," they explained. Side note: No matter the size of the dildo, lube is your friend.

Most dildos can be used for multiple purposes, but if you have a certain penetrative preference in mind, then make sure the dildo you buy will get the job done. For instance, if you want one to use with a harness, then get yourself a dildo with a compatible base. If you're looking to do some hands-free pegging or have strap-on sex, then go with a double dildo. And, ofc, if you're using your dildo for different purposes or with a different partner, then a thorough cleaning is very! necessary!

Pleasure is hiiiighly diverse, so that's why we rounded up a whole range of dildos, from beginner-friendly options to vibrating dildos that'll leave your legs quaking. Here at Cosmo, we have v high standards when it comes to sex toy recs. Every one of our round-ups adheres to the 15 Percent Pledge and includes toys for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don't have to do it yourself.

Corinne Sullivan is an Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, relationships, shopping, and more. She can tell you everything you need to know about the love lives of A-listers, the coziest bedsheets, and the sex toys actually worth your $$$. She is also the author of the 2018 novel Indecent. Follow her on Instagram for cute pics of her pup and bébé.

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